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Old school friends Barry Preston and John Stigant have been reunited after 60 years at Churchill Retirement Living\u2019s Simmonds Lodge in Drayton<\/h3>\nOld school friends Barry Preston and John Stigant have been reunited after 60 years at Churchill Retirement Living\u2019s Simmonds Lodge in Drayton<\/h3>\nBarry and John, who are both 71, bumped into each other at the Lodge\u2019s Open Day after deciding it was time to move somewhere that was lower maintenance.<\/p>\n
Retired builder Barry, who has bought\u00a0a one-bedroom apartment at Simmonds Lodge (pictured below), said: \u201cIt was my daughter\u2019s idea to look at what the Lodge had to offer as she only lives five minutes away. I came along for an Open Day and there was John! We both went to Portsmouth Technical High School together 60 years ago and hadn\u2019t really seen each other since. It was a pleasant surprise to meet again like that.<\/p>\n
\u201cI moved to the Lodge in February. I built my three-bedroom home myself and lived there for 47 years, but it had just gotten too big for me to take care of anymore. John and his wife Valerie also bought an apartment shortly after so it was nice to know I\u2019d already have a friend here. We regularly meet up for coffee in the Owners\u2019 Lounge now.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Simmonds Lodge, Drayton, Portsmouth<\/p><\/div>\n
Four in ten\u00a0Brits have deliberately avoided their neighbours on at least one occasion, while three in ten\u00a0might not even recognise them\u00a0if they bumped into them out of context, according to new research.<\/p>\n
Indicating\u00a0that the nation is not as neighbourly as we used to be, a quarter of UK adults say they have argued with their neighbours, with the most common disagreements caused by loud music, unruly kids, noisy pets, boundary issues and car parking.<\/p>\n
The survey also found that older people want to be far more neighbourly than their younger counterparts, with 90 per cent of over-55s saying they would like to get to know them better, compared with just 71 per cent of 18-24 year olds. And less than half of 18-24 year olds said they exchange Christmas cards with those living next door to them, compared with eight in 10 of the over-55s.<\/p>\n
Despite the worrying trend, eight in 10 of all those surveyed think people should do more to get to know their neighbours, with three quarters thinking it is important to get on well with them. However, less than a third of people said they would ever consider inviting their neighbours around for a meal or social gathering.<\/p>\n
The research of 2,000 UK adults was commissioned by retirement house-builder Churchill Retirement Living to find out more about people\u2019s attitudes towards those living around them, in particular the older generation.<\/p>\n
Of those surveyed, 43 per cent have elderly neighbours, with half of those anxious they might get lonely. A fifth of those polled say they have been concerned for their neighbours at some point, with health problems, age and loneliness the most common worries.<\/p>\n
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Dame Esther Rantzen DBE, Churchill Ambassador and founder of The Silver Line, said:\u00a0\u201cWe have a huge loneliness epidemic in this country, and looking out for those next door to us can be a big step towards curing it \u2013 especially if they are older people who might be feeling isolated or not as active as they used to be.<\/p>\n
“Although it\u2019s a sad fact of life that not everyone gets on with their neighbours all the time, it\u2019s also encouraging to see that most of us can still see the value of getting to know our neighbours better.<\/p>\n
\u201cI have personally witnessed the benefits a strong sense of community can bring, and we can all do something to make that difference to the people who live around us.\u201d<\/p>\n
The research also found:<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Only half of respondents think there is a sense of community in their neighbourhood.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Six in 10 respondents would generally rather their neighbours kept themselves to themselves.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a072 per cent have never had their neighbour over for dinner or any other type of gathering.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The average Brit knows six of their neighbours by name \u2013 this increases to seven among those aged 55 and over, but falls to four among those aged 34 and under.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a014 per cent don\u2019t even know what their neighbour\u2019s name is.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Over a fifth of people have forgotten a neighbour\u2019s name but found it too awkward to ask them what it is.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Around half of Brits described their relationship with their neighbours as \u2018neutral\u2019 \u2013 neither friendly nor unfriendly.<\/p>\n
–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Less than a fifth of Brits are friends with their neighbours on social media.<\/p>\n
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Bedroom at Simmonds Lodge<\/p><\/div>\n
Spencer McCarthy, Churchill Retirement Living\u2019s Chairman & CEO, said:\u00a0\u201cIt\u2019s perhaps no surprise that the older generation are more inclined to be friendly towards their neighbours and value a strong sense of community.<\/p>\n
“I\u2019ve witnessed this at our retirement living developments, where we bring good neighbours together to share a more sociable and fulfilling lifestyle in their retirement.<\/p>\n
“But there is hope yet for the younger generation too. We all have busy lives, but we can all take small actions that make a difference to the people living around us.<\/p>\n
“The evidence from our research suggests that there are plenty of people of all ages willing to embrace that and be better neighbours.\u201d<\/p>\n
John and Valerie Stagnant have\u00a0had no problems getting to know their neighbours at\u00a0Simmonds Lodge, Churchill’s retirement development near Portsmouth.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe feel very safe and secure here, and knowing that Tracy the Lodge Manager is always on hand to help if we need it is wonderful,” John enthused. “Everybody at the Lodge is so friendly and we have settled in really well. It\u2019s been brilliant meeting up with Barry again too!\u201d<\/p>\n
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Living room in one-bed apartment at Simmonds Lodge<\/p><\/div>\n
Simmonds Lodge is a collection of 52 one and two bedroom privately owned apartments offering quality retirement accommodation and safe, independent living.<\/p>\n
Located on Havant Road in the suburb of Drayton, a small residential area in the city of Portsmouth, it has all amenities right on your doorstep including various shops, supermarket, dentist, doctor\u2019s surgery and a golf club.<\/p>\n
The development has been specially designed for the over 60s, with features such as a video-entry system, lift to all floors, a 24-hour care and support system and a Lodge Manager. Communal facilities include an Owners\u2019 Lounge, landscaped gardens, guest suite, a wellbeing suite providing health and beauty treatments and a fitness suite. It also has its own on-site coffee bar where owners can enjoy a drink and mingle with their neighbours.<\/p>\n