{"id":25288,"date":"2018-03-05T09:28:44","date_gmt":"2018-03-05T09:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/?p=25288"},"modified":"2018-03-06T14:33:42","modified_gmt":"2018-03-06T14:33:42","slug":"moving-mum-dad-retirement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/moving-mum-dad-retirement\/","title":{"rendered":"Moving in with mum and dad in retirement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243;][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.105&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Retirement villages are now attracting two generations from the same family reports JANE SLADE<\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_25311\" style=\"width: 450px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25311\" class=\"wp-image-25311\" src=\"http:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock.jpg\" alt=\"Thelma Foxhall and Hilda Hammock\" width=\"440\" height=\"660\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock.jpg 1941w, https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/newclone.retiremove.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Thelma-Foxhall-and-Hilda-Hammock-1080x1620.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 440px) 100vw, 440px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-25311\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Thelma Foxhall and Hilda Hammock<\/p><\/div>\n<p>In Selby, North Yorkshire, 101 year old Hilda Hammock moved to Anchor\u2019s Pymble development to join her daughter Thelma, 81, who has lived there for four years.<\/p>\n<p>Thelma has a bedroom on the first floor and Hilda on the ground floor, so mother and daughter have their own independence but can see each other every day.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs an only child, we have always had a close relationship and it is lovely to have her close by,\u201d says widow Thelma.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have three children, 10 grandchildren and nine great grandchildren (mum\u2019s great great grandchildren!) so we have plenty of visitors.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pymble is a sheltered housing scheme for over 55s with 39 studio, one bedroom and two bedroom properties available for rent from \u00a3447.85 a month and includes service charge, heating, hot water and water rates.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs the average life expectancy continues to grow, the age gap between our youngest and oldest residents is also increasing; so multi-generational living in our retirement developments is becoming more common,\u201d observes Howard Nankivell,\u00a0Anchor\u2019s Housing Operations Director<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe appreciate that the needs of a 55 year old differs significantly from someone in their 80s or 90s. We therefore take a flexible approach that adapts to the needs of both generations.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Increasingly too it is the children moving first and persuading mum or dad to join them.<\/p>\n<p>Val Richards was just 56 when she moved to Retirement Villages\u2019 Lime Tree Village in Warwickshire with her husband Paddy. That was nine years ago. Earlier this year she persuaded her mum Maureen, 88, a retired teacher, to buy a two-bedroom apartment there too.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s given mum a new lease of life,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum could never have been so independent if she had stayed in her own home in Leamington Spa. She was housebound and dependent on friends or me to take her everywhere. Here she can dine with friends in the restaurant and has joined the craft group.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It has also made visits from Maureen\u2019s three grandchildren and great grandchildren easier. They can put up the whole family as they each have two bedrooms and there is also a guest suite.<\/p>\n<p>Retirement housebuilders McCarthy and Stone has also seen an increasing number of parents and their children, moving into its developments across the UK.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe know of several sites that have two generations of the same family living under one roof,\u201d says Geoff Bates, Head of Brand and Communications.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA lot of the time it\u2019s so the child can feel like they are supporting or caring for their parent while also preparing for their own old age, or in some cases where the parent has moved in first, they see the independent, active, social lifestyle they\u2019ve become accustomed to, and they think\u2026hang on a minute I want a slice of that too!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Richard and Lola Cross are already feeling the benefit since their daughter Debbie and her husband Nigel joined them at Richmond Bede Village near Coventry six months ago.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"et-pullquote right quote\"><p>It really is a case of happy families now my daughter is here<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cIt gives us more of a purpose having them here,\u201d says Richard, 82 who bought a two-bed apartment with his wife 15 years ago, then was joined a year later by his sister Maureen who bought one too.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt really is a case of happy families now my daughter is here,\u201d he adds. Full-time teacher Debbie 59 and her semi-retired husband Nigel, 63 moved into a two-bed cottage six months ago.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlthough I am 82 and my daughter is 59 we don\u2019t notice the age gap. We love doing things together, we all have the same interests and even go on holiday together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Richard, a retired purchasing manager and Lola have been more active since Debbie and Nigel arrived \u2013 or rather their West Highland terrier arrived.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe walk Barney every day. It keeps us active,\u201d Richard enthuses.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe still lead our own lives and I still drive but it\u2019s nice to know Debbie and Nigel are on hand to help us if we need it. We need younger people around. They are stimulating company.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Richmond Villages can also boast six\u00a0centenarians at\u00a0its\u00a0Northampton\u00a0village.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWith people living ever-longer and property values continuing to rise, we will inevitably see different generations from the same family increasingly living together.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA retirement village is therefore the perfect solution. Not only can people retain their lifestyle and their own front door, they have the reassurance of knowing that other members of the family can be close by.\u201d Says Philippa Fieldhouse, managing director, Richmond Villages.<\/p>\n<p>Having children return to the nest can rejuvenate older mums and dads. Val Richards\u2019 88 year old mum Maureen has rediscovered her passion for her baking since moving to Lime Tree Village. Her Victoria sponge would rival any on Bake Off.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row_empty\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div> Retirement villages are now attracting two generations from the same family reports JANE SLADE In Selby, North Yorkshire, 101 year old Hilda Hammock moved to Anchor\u2019s Pymble development to join her daughter Thelma, 81, who has lived there for four years. 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