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Closing the distance gap between you and your parents has huge benefits that can make a difference to everyone’s lives<\/h3>\n

Helping to plan your parents\u2019 future isn\u2019t easy. But encouraging them to move closer to you when they get older will be a boon to your life as well as theirs.<\/p>\n

After many years of independence, you might think it\u2019s unnecessary \u2013\u00a0but as your loved ones continue to age, you\u2019ll soon realise it\u2019s for the best for everyone.<\/p>\n

The Retirement Villages Group has witnessed this first-hand.<\/p>\n

They have seen what closing the distance gap between children and parents can mean. Their retirement villages are known for their inclusive, active and independent nature.<\/p>\n

This means that when families live nearby, they can be immersed into village life with their parents.<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s enjoying activities in the clubhouse, a coffee morning at the restaurant or venturing out into the local community.<\/p>\n

These all form precious memories and feelings of togetherness.<\/p>\n

Jane and Gordon Briggs, who live at Elmbridge Village<\/a> in Surrey, enjoy taking their 15-year-old dog Chester on three walks a day and are often joined by their son\u2019s dog. Jane explained: \u201cMy son is 22 and he has a dog who also enjoys walks around the village. I\u2019ve joked that in another 40 years our son could be living here too!\u201d<\/p>\n

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Jane Briggs and dog Chester<\/p><\/div>\n

Although we\u2019re now living in a very much modern world, no amount of digital technology can replace a get together face to face.<\/p>\n

No matter your age, knowing support is nearby is paramount too.<\/p>\n

If, as the child, you just need some wise words from your parents or equally your parents are having a particularly down day \u2013 it\u2019s nice to know you can pop in to see them.<\/p>\n

Michael O\u2019Connor, son of Avonpark<\/a> residents in Wiltshire, has discovered how much this can mean.<\/p>\n

Michael regularly visits with his children which has proven invaluable to both him and his parents, especially his father who has dementia.<\/p>\n

He explains: \u201cMum finds it very reassuring that I\u2019m just around the corner.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think that living at Avonpark<\/a> will give her a new lease of life, which is just what she needs.<\/p>\n

\u201cDad\u2019s dementia means that he does get confused at times, but he\u2019s totally engaged when the children are there. So, it\u2019s great that we can visit more often now, and my parents will be able to see their grandchildren grow up \u2013 the children love having their grandparents close by.\u201d<\/p>\n

As neither parent drives anymore, the village minibus offers a great way for them to get around.<\/p>\n

Michael, a graphic designer, is fortunate enough to be flexible with his time and being just around the corner means he can sit with his father whilst his wife, Emma, takes his mum into town.<\/p>\n

Michael continues: \u201cI was an only child and my parents always made sure that I had everything I needed, so it\u2019s really nice to be able to help them now. The living options available at Avonpark<\/a> are superb and I would highly recommend considering a move to the village for a loved one, when the time is right.\u201d<\/p>\n

Quite simply, encouraging your parents to move closer to you provides options not obstacles.<\/p>\n

Knowing they will be able to make it to their grandchildren or great-grandchildren\u2019s school play or able to pop over for lunch without the stress of a long journey can make a vital difference to their wellbeing too.<\/p>\n

Dog walking appears to be one of the top activities parents and children share together at our villages.<\/p>\n

Charters Village<\/a> resident, John Kidwell explains: \u201cBeing close to my family is wonderful because I get to see my daughter and grandchildren all the time. It\u2019s nice to be able to spend time together and share our love of dog walking!\u201d<\/p>\n

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John Kidwell and daughter Louise enjoying dog walking at Charters Village<\/p><\/div>\n

His daughter Louise emphasises the benefit of the shared West Sussex location: \u201cI try and visit dad most days. I have a Border Terrier dog called Millie and we take the dogs out for a walk together. We wouldn\u2019t be able to do that if dad lived further away.<\/p>\n

\u201cNow that he doesn\u2019t drive anymore, I also try to take him to his medical appointments but there is a local taxi service which is very reliable. My children come and visit too, taking him shopping, and if I am away, they\u2019ll pop over to have dinner. He\u2019s made a lot of friends at the village too, which is lovely.\u201d<\/p>\n

The beauty of a retirement village allows those who are unable to live close to their families, to benefit from the presence of someone else\u2019s. The villages aren\u2019t gated communities, but they certainly are strong communities with a family environment. It\u2019s not uncommon to see local schools visiting or families dropping in \u2013 providing the perfect mix of a family atmosphere.<\/p>\n

To find out more about Retirement Villages’ 16 villages just click here<\/a> or call 01372 383950 to find out more.<\/p>\n

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